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                          一個搭訕方法。很實用,有興趣的拿去看

                          來源:投稿 日期:2014-09-17 錄入:穆子昂 閱讀:1次 我要評論
                            很多人搭訕的時候,總會突然犯起“接近焦慮”,一邊說算了吧,而且給自己找一些開脫的理由,比如“她跟朋友在一起”,“今天我不太舒服,狀態不好”,“感覺她應該比我大,不是我的菜”;但是同時又想:“不認識真的太可惜了”,“我就不能突破一下自己么?”,“上次就這么錯過了”。總之就是在焦慮,猶豫和徘徊。
                            
                            OK!下面是我今天實戰的例子,我在餐廳看見了一個女孩一個人在吃飯,便打了一盤菜坐她對面,這個時候四周人很多,多次經驗告訴我:即便開口了,其實對方不愿多搭理你的。所以我跟她對視了一下,然后什么也沒有發生,三分鐘后我吃完離開,又過了三分鐘,她也走出大門。我就在她背后尾隨了十秒鐘,然后追上她,說了一句“HELLO”, --- 她:“你有什么事情么”,--- 我:“我剛才在餐廳坐在你對面吃飯呢” --- 她:“我知道。” --- 我:“剛才見到你時候,我感覺你很知性,給我感覺很好,所以我想認識你來著。但是沒在街上搭訕過女孩,所以難免緊張。所以過去的幾分鐘我一直在糾結,我害怕你會拒絕我,或者給我來一罐辣椒粉。最后我想,如果不認識你的話,太可惜了。所以我鼓起勇氣過來了,想和你認識一下,” --- 她笑得特別開心,然后我告訴了她我的一些很基本的情況,然后blablabla,加了她的微信。
                           
                          一個搭訕方法。很實用,有興趣的拿去看  
                            如果沒記錯的話,這個案例我模模糊糊看某位大師介紹過,就是把自己對于“搭訕”這件事本身的感受告訴對方,而不必去生搬硬套找一些話題,比如出電影院,搭訕一個女孩:“剛才電影很有意思哈”,還不如直接告訴他:“我想認識你。”而且向對方闡述自己克服緊張和焦慮這件事本身就讓人覺得很贊,是給自己加分的,跟你克服了不敢上臺演講的困難帶給人同樣的感覺。
                            
                            這個案例也許不適用于每個人,每個情況,我拋磚引玉,希望大家舉一反三哈。

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