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                          高情商的男人是如何談話的

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                            談話,一個困擾兄弟們的問題,我們從出生到這個世界上來,任何東西都是學來的,包括說話我們從第一句爸爸媽媽開始學起。可見人并不是說天生就會說話的,任何東西都是需要學的,但是隨著時間也會有人說“這個人不會說話”我們不會說話嗎?我們當然會,只是我們不知道我們該怎么說話說的讓對方感到有感覺。
                            
                            不會說話的起因:
                            
                            我們隨著環境的成長,我們就會變得適合這個環境,就好比說:“一個對游戲很專心的人,他身邊會有很多游戲的朋友。”這恰恰就驗證了那句話“志同道合”也證明了我們要學會見人說人話,見鬼說鬼話。這里可不是說你真的要去和鬼談話。畢竟我不太喜歡,這里是指你見什么樣的人說什么樣的話。
                            
                            就是說“物以類聚”明星的朋友們,都是明星。包括說我們的書架。我們會把小說放到一個地方,我們會把心理學放到一個地方,這就是一個物以類聚, 什么樣的人就有什么樣的朋友。當有人去說“看我交的都是些什么朋友,都不靠譜。”這個時候我想你應該去反思一下自己。好,言歸正傳。
                            
                            談話的方式:
                            
                            一頭牛和一匹馬是說不到一塊的,我們可以試想一下,假如說一個慢性子的人和一個急性子的人在一起了,他們在一起會發生,肯定避免不了爭吵。急性子的人在等著慢性子的人,那么接下來所發生的事,我們可想而知了,呵呵。
                            
                            據我了解,當一對情侶在一起的時間長了,他們會變得越來越像對方,其實有的時候迎合才是重要的。那么就是說我們談話的方式要隨著不同的人而改變,那有的人會問這個很難啊,我想說的是其實這個很簡單,當你知道方法再加以聯系就好了。
                            
                            我們來舉個例子當你興高采烈的去跟你朋友說“嘿,我今天買彩票中了100萬耶”但是他無精打采的說“哦”你肯定就不想去跟他聊你中彩票這件事情了,而是你的情緒也會降下來。
                            
                            那么就是說當我們去聆聽他人的故事的時候,我們要隨著他人的情緒和語速而變化,就是模仿他人的情緒和語速,這樣會讓對方感到你是在認真的聆聽而且和你說話也會有感覺,有聊下去的必要。
                            
                            我們可以試想一下,當你特別悲傷的去講一個故事,而對方呢特別高興,你肯定沒心情說下去了。而且會厭煩他。所以說我們去聽別人說話時要模仿他的語氣和情緒給以回應。
                            
                            我們知道會把妹,事業有成的男人都是他的情商很高,有一句說的很好“智商高不如情商高”情商也不是與生俱來的,也是需要鍛煉出來和學習出來。

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