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                          當你害怕進入一段新的戀情

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                            幾年以前,當我剛剛搬到韓國之后,我發現自己陷入了情感關系的挑戰之中。
                            
                            交流問題。在小事上爭執不休,吵架又和好。
                            
                            我們的關系一直處于打斗爭吵的狀態,長期處于風暴中央的我,想要尋找到一些平靜安寧。
                            
                            不用說,在我的感情結束的那一刻,我發現自己嚇壞了。我不敢和別人約會。不敢進入一段新的戀情。我甚至不敢發展新的友誼。
                            
                            這段戀情讓我很受傷,甚至擊垮了我。我在那時唯一想做的事就是找出我在感情中犯的錯并找出解決方法。
                           
                            
                            因此,在接下來的幾個月中,我限制自己參與的社交關系。我基本上只跟我工作上的老師學生和以前的朋友聯系。我真的不想開始一段新感情,因為我害怕會把它弄得一團糟。
                            
                            我厭倦了受傷害。我厭倦了一次又一次的失望。我現在陷入了害怕讓別人進入自己內心的處境,因為我害怕他會像其他人一樣一次又一次的讓我失望。
                            
                            盡管我努力嘗試從在幾個月中關注自己的行動中獲益,但是我不把這個辦法推薦給所有人。盡管它能挑戰我們自己去更好地了解自己,但是它會使你感到孤單甚至有點沮喪。
                            
                            除此之外,封閉自己的舉動是不健康的,尤其是出于怕被傷害的原因。當我們因為害怕而自我封閉,停止與外界接觸時,這種做法只能令我們更加恐懼。當我們最終決定走出內心的困境時,情況會變得更加困難。
                            
                            其背后簡單的誘因是有缺陷的:自我封閉因為怕受到傷害。接受這種觀點并任由恐懼控制自己,我們就將自己與現實割裂了。真相是:那些被我們吸引的人總是打算給我們最大的機會去發展自身。
                            
                            所以,所有傷過你心的人,所有你曾經關系親密并發生過爭執的人,所有那些曾經或是未來會進入你生命中的人都讓你能夠發展成長變成一個更好的人。
                            
                            那些人教會你你需要什么,不需要什么。他們教會你你想成為什么樣子,不想成為什么樣子。他們影響了你,讓你變得更加強大更加自信。他們教會你善待自己和忠于自己的重要性。
                            
                            為此,你值的冒被傷害的風險,值得承受批評,值得“走出來”。因為,如果沒有這些傷害,我們就永遠不能真正的長大。我們的生活也不會變的如此的充實富足。
                            
                            因此,如果你猶豫不決或是冒險嘗試。勇于承擔這個風險,你最終收獲的成長會比你在這其中不得不忍耐的痛苦要多得多。
                            
                            現在就開始行動吧!
                            
                            你從過去感情的傷痛中學到了什么?它是怎樣讓你成長為一個更加強大的人的?請在下面的評論里和我們分享你的想法。

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